You can go on a ride, have a bite of your favourite food or just hang out and talk about the Universe.
Friends are the extended family. But they are better – because you choose them. So, you have a chance to have maximum impact on your lives. Often, the people you spend your most time with influences you subconsciously.
You stay with family and often you can’t get out from them, even if they do harm to you. Because they are family.
Friends are unique relationships. You choose them – take it forward. And when you don’t like them, you break the friendship.
But there are always new friends to be made. In the long run, you don’t break friendships but become distant enough that you hang out with select few, whom you admire and have the most fun with.
What are some fun things you can do with your friends?
- Is it a picnic?
- Or a trip to some unknown place.
- Maybe it’s having dinner together.
It’s tricky to nail down the specifics of a good friendship. And therefore the fun things because often those fun things are unique to you.
The Most Intimate Thing Ever
Eating is underrated. Let me emphasize – eating together is underrated. Often you treat food as a thing to do. But it has the most significant impact on your relationships.
While eating, you need to open up. Show how you grope that chicken and shove it in your mouth. You are vulnerable when you eat.
Also, you might make noise and sometimes both of you do. It can get awkward. Often, when you decide you are going to eat food together with someone – it’s an intimate moment.
The trick is to ditch the phone and talk while eating the food slowly. Great conversations happen this way.
And among friends, eating food together is the most fun thing you can do. Better if you take it slow while eating and enjoy the moment.
A Vacation Is A Memory
You do tens of things in your day. And you either forget about it or you remember hazily. Because it’s not a memory.
Memory is a distinct remembrance of you doing something with someone at someplace. And when you make it special, it becomes special and is hardwired in your brain.
You remember the fun times you spent and relive it when you look back.
And with whom best to spend your vacation with than your best buddies. Of course, the memory funda works with anyone. But you need to go on a trip with your friends to go crazy.
Often, you can’t do things when with family or your loved ones. But with friends, you can go crazy and have the time of your life.
And with all the goofiness going around, you create a wonderful memory. And it’s easily the amazing fun thing you do with your friend. Because it’s something you need to do to explore life, places and relationships.
Push Each Other To Grow
This is the single best thing a good friendship can do to your life. A friend helps you see the things which you are blind to.
Helps you grow by giving your best, standing by your side when things go wrong and push you hardest when you are feeling low.
If you want to do something cool, amazing, fun with your friend then makes them successful. Help when they are starting a business, sober them up when they drown in breakup alcohol period.
And guide them to the best path possible when life throws them a dilemma. And in this way, you let your friend not slip. They do the same in return for you.
Sometimes, you are the wise one and sometimes the dumb. Become the saviour for each other and thus you will be a part of each other in all tough and great times. This the best fun thing to do with your friends.
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